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29 giugno

Faces

Assalamoalaikum,

It happened a few weeks ago. I went to drop my oldest son at the bus stop for a few days in a  row as opposed to norm when my husband does the job. I would take the youngest with me and on the way back we would spend an hour in the park. It was fun. I had been meaning to write this since then but never had time. It was about the faces.

I would sit there in the park in the morning and many kids going to the village school would pass by the park as a short cut. I would look at their faces and it was surprisng how I had a sense of DejaVu with all of them, I mean really all of them.

I saw the kids with the fed up look on their faces who hadn't done their homework the night before. I saw the kids driving by with their parent, one elbow on the window, face resting on the palm looking out of the car trying to find a way to escape the drive to school. I could almost read in the eyes" I wish we have an accident or I fly away so I won't have to go to school". There were the teacher's pets, all dressed up smartly, smiling broadly anticipating the show off of yet something else. Gait full of pride and confidence and all perked up even early in the morning.

I saw a kid, tossing a ball one day and another day some other thing, with a mean look and a smirk on his face, almost imagining his victim being hurt with it, a typical bully.

This meant that they ARE that way, being a specific kind of a kid at school IS the person you really ARE. It doesn't limit to the school, you show who you are  even at home, all the time, it is part of your personality.

I remember going to the birthday party of a classfellow, a friend, to her home. It was a small party and she was a  class topper. She always dressed very lady-like, proper, wore glasses at school. Never tripped over things, never laughed only smiled, never came late and in short the ultimate Miss perfect ( are you thinking how could I be friends with such people? Believe me I have questioned myself time and time again over this matter as to why my friends are always prefect? Maybe Im the one who makes them remind of un perfection hehehe)

Anyway, I went to her home, surprise surprise, even at just 11/12 years old, she was wearing her dupatta perfectly, it never fell from her shoulders, the same smile, the same gait and everything was perfectly perfect in the exact same way. Gosh!!!

When I think back to how I was in school and how I am now, I think I haven't changed much in terms of personality either. Most if not all of my friends haven't changed either.

It is strange how in every school the nerd, the bully, the bullied, the class clown, the weak, the poor exist. The girl with lice in her hair would still have lice in her hair when she had grand children!!! No Im serious. What's more there are swiss french girls here  in My son's class and they have lice in their hair sometimes. They get suspended and have to come to school after they are treated and cured of it, yet they have it again. When I looked at her, she had the same look on her face and seemed exactly like the lice girl in MY classes, in every school, hehehe.

Allaho Akbar!! Wisdom is a great thing ( no Im not saying I have too much) and  Allah has designed the world in such a  way that with wisdom we would ponder about many things which would lead us to understanding the Majesty of Allah in a better way. Even small things like kids and faces makes me think about Allah;s creations.

If there were more gods, there would certainly have been disorder in the universe, Allaho Akbar everything is so systematic!! SubhanAllah





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Ayeshaha scritto:
philosophical brain :S:S:S:S

aap honge na falsafy:P

JAzakAllah
6 Lug.
Raheelha scritto:
Incredibly True!!
What I feel is, apart from child's own character, there is an enormous impact of family guidance, the teachers training and the kids he plays with. The family part is most important. A good child symbolizes a healthy family. Parents guide their kids what to wear, how to talk, how to walk and how to deal with people. Today when I see adults doing bizarre things, straight away I think their parents never educated them well.
Even though good souls endeavor learning with time, but it’s almost impossible to erase the imprints of childhood & vice versa.

MashaAllah you possess such a wonderful, philosophical brain.
5 Lug.

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